Why she said negative?

She was listening to a folk song about life. The essence of the song was to say, nothing is permanent in life so live like a guest on this planet. The message has truth in it, she said listen to this song how good it is. He asked her a question, what is the use of listening to this? She said we must listen whenever someone tells something good. He said what is the use, right after completion of that song if we are back in our daily routine? When we don’t give serious thought about it, what is the use of listening? Is it listening at all? She said you are always negative, that is the reason no one likes your books. Of course she told him humorously. He has given serious thought about it, these are his findings.

This is the problem with most of us, while we are getting entertained we think we are changing. We want to continue psychological patterns we build for security. Understanding requires your energy, which is attention then it turns into action. We are aware that we are not behaving in righteous manner, we cover it up by   identifying with something which is good. When one who is deeply interested in change, for a good society points out all these things we call them negative. They are negative because they are asking you to move, the reality is they are asking out of love and compassion. They can see clearly that in the patterns created by thought, there is no security. These patterns are based on pleasure and pain not on truth. The desire for psychological continuity is not a good foundation for life. The foundation is important, and it must be strong.